Park Eun-jeong (hayi yakhe real igama), omnye umama ezimbini, intlungu imoto kunokwenzeka ingozi nje zisixhenxe zidlulileyo emva kwayo wokuqhawula umtshato umva ngoUmyeni kokuba kuvunyelwene ngazo ukuba abalawuli, uphumelele (dollazi) ngenyanga kuba umntwana inkxaso xa ukusayina yakhe wokuqhawula umtshato namaphepha angama. Kodwa yena abruptly itshintshe yakhe inombolo yefowuni kwaye bema ukubhatala le mali emva ukufunda malunga Park ke, kunokwenzeka ingozi. Severely injured kwi-spine kwaye ayikwazi ukwenza umsebenzi, yena relied kwi kukarhulumente kaxakeka ifuna imali evunyelweyo kuba zisixhenxe zidlulileyo de yena waxelelwa ukuba yena akukho nto ixesha elide eligible kuba ethile, inzuzo."Mna ngokuba wam ex-husband emsebenzini countless umphinda-phinde ngo kodwa mna ke kuphela wathi, ngomoya wakhe nabo ukuba waba 'ayikwazi' ukuthatha wam ngefowuni,"-yeminyaka ubudala umama wathi kwintlanganiso kunye reporters ngolwesine umhla we."Ukuba ke xa ndagqiba bafune uncedo kwi-imo-qhuba Umntwana Inkxaso-Arhente."Omnye umama abantliziyo ex-husband bebe refusing ukuhlawula umntwana inkxaso uthetha ngexesha intlanganiso kunye reporters kwi-i-seoul, ngolwesine. Park sesinye, Afrika isikorean omnye abazali abathe bafumana idlulelwe lixesha umntwana inkxaso evela zabo ex-amaqabane okanye ex-romanticcomment partners, kunye inkxaso Umntwana Inkxaso-Arhente elamiselwa kulo nyaka uphelileyo. I-arhente yamiselwa emva kokuba urhulumente nzulu lwabonisa ukuba ipesenti bonke omnye abazali Emzantsi Korea zange wafumana na umntwana inkxaso lifike kwi-non-custodial abazali ngo. Kuphela ezintandathu ipesenti kubo ezenziwe sesi sibini lawsuits. Nkqu phakathi abo uphumelele iimeko zabo amashumi amathathu anesine ipesenti bathi zange wafumana nayiphi na imali, nangona kukho le inkundla ii-odolo. Ukususela yayo ukusekwa ngeyokwindla kulo nyaka uphelileyo, i-arhente iye yesebe eqokelelweyo ezinye. isibhozo bhiliyoni uphumelele kukunceda kakhulu ka-idlulelwe lixesha umntwana inkxaso intlawulo."Ngoko ke, baninzi oomama kuba kuza kuthi esithi kokuba kugqitywe ukuba bathethe nathi njengokuba yokugqibela resort,"watsho Lee Seon-hee, intloko ye-arhente."Abaninzi kubo wathi kuthi ukuze babe seriously wayecinga ka-zinika phezulu ubomi babo phambi ukufumana phandle malunga nathi. Umntwana inkxaso ngu-wonke umntwana ke akunjalo, hayi ngumzali ke, okanye nabani na ongomnye ke ukuba umqondiso kude okanye waive."Ngokunxulumene-arhente, ipesenti bonke omnye abazali abathi ezenziwe sesi sibini isicelo ukuya kuqokelela idlulelwe lixesha inkxaso evela omnye umzali baba ibhinqa. Kuqhutywe abazali baba noba iinqwelo-kuzalwa umtshato immigrants okanye Koreans abo watshata langaphandle amaqabane. Amashumi amabini anesithathu baba oomawomkhulu abo ezenziwe sesi sibini izicelo ukuqokelela inkxaso evela zabo abantwana abakhulileyo okanye abantwana imithetho. Ngaxeshanye, unwed omnye abazali kuphela kwiphondo zichazwe kuba. amashumi amathathu anesine ipesenti bonke omnye abazali abo bafuna uncedo kwi-arhente."Kuba i-unwed omnye umzali ukufumana umntwana inkxaso, lowo okanye yena kufuneka kuvavanya ukuba umntwana yi biologically okunxulumene yakhe okanye yakhe eks,"watsho a lawyer abo emisebenzini kwi-arhente."Kodwa ke kunzima kuba nabo ukufumana zabo eks ukuthatha i-DNA uvavanyo e a zonyango ziko, ingakumbi xa bathe ezilahlekileyo uqhagamshelane."Kanjalo. amashumi amabini anesibhozo ipesenti zabazali abo wafumana idlulelwe lixesha intlawulo ngokusebenzisa i-arhente ngamadodana abo bahlala kwi-yenqila iphela i-seoul kwaye Gyeonggi Kwiphondo iindawo. I-arhente ngoku akanalo na amasebe ngaphandle i-seoul Ingqokelela yamanani yatyhila ukuba zabazali ababe abakwicandelo ngamazwe marriages, ngaphezu amahlanu ipesenti abo ucela kuba i-arhente ke inkxaso baba isikorean - kuzalwa abantu."Abaninzi ezi zooyise baba divorced emva zabo ex-amaqabane wabaleka kude ukusuka ekhaya,"i-esemthethweni wathi. I-arhente wathi yayo abasebenzi kokuba ukuqinisekisa lowo ufunda ezininzi non-custodial abazali okokuba kufuneka uxanduva lokunika inkxaso kuba abantwana babo kangangoko ukuba banako. Umzekelo, uyise abo divorced yakhe eks-umfazi, ibhinqa Emntla isikorean defector, wala ukuba ahlawule idlulelwe lixesha imali xa kuqala ixhuamne yi-arhente. Umfazi wakhe waba ezenziwe sesi sibini kuba wokuqhawula umtshato citing yakhe intsingiselo udlakathiso ngokwasemzimbeni, apho inkundla kokuba samkelwe. Nabo bonke wakhe amalungu osapho Emntla ntshona, yena kokuba akukho omnye rely kwi Emzantsi Korea emva okunokukhethwa kuko."Yena wathi, nathi ukuze abe ngu-hayi financially capable ka ukuxhasa yakhe -nyanga-omdala umntwana, waza wabuza ukuba urhulumente unako inkxaso umntwana endaweni kuye,"i-esemthethweni kwi-arhente wathi."Waye kanjalo? upset e yokuba inkundla ruled abaxhasayo yakhe ex-umfazi, nangona akazange ufuna ukufumana divorced kwi-nangona kukho yakhe imbali kakubi."Omnye ubawo abo divorced yakhe Philippine-kuzalwa ex-umfazi kanjalo wala ukuba ahlawule umntwana ngenkxaso yakhe isihlanu -yeminyaka ubudala nentombi. Yakhe ex-mlingane, abo wenziwe abahlala e a ngendawo yokuhlala kuba victims of basekhaya emva kokuba divorced kwaye wenziwe akukwazeki ukufumana umsebenzi, watyelela i-arhente kwifayili isicelo kuba umntwana inkxaso. Xa ixhuamne yi - i-arhente, umntu thathwa kokuba"akukho xanduva"ukuxhasa intombi yakhe njengoko kokuba kunikwe phezulu custody umntwana. Kwaba kuphela xa i-arhente ezifanelekileyo kuye ukuba abe ayikwazi ngokuzenzekelayo kuphulukana nayo inxalenye yakhe ngenyanga umvuzo evela emsebenzini ukuze abe wavuma ukuba ahlawule inkxaso. Kuba Ukhim Myung-kamsinya (hayi yakhe real igama), grandparent yayo s ngubani ukukhulisa wakhe u-grandchildren ngaphandle nayiphi na inkxaso evela wakhe omdala abantwana, imeko kubaluleke nangakumbi ngumngeni. Wakhe unyana wenziwe ilahlekile ukususela kowama- kwaye yakhe ex-umfazi wenziwe refusing ukubonelela nayiphi na inkxaso-mali ye-wakhe nabantwana. Ukhim okwangoku ilungiselela a lawsuit ngokuchasene yakhe ex-nentombi mthetho kunye inkxaso kwi-arhente."Mna andinaku afford ukuthumela wam teenage umzukulwana ukuya hagwon, private imfundo institute, ngoko ke lowo spends uninzi ixesha lakhe yedwa e-Internet-rock,"yena wathi kuyo intlanganiso kunye reporters, sobbing."Yena ke ukuba isithethi kujike aggressive ekhaya. Xa lowo screams e kum kwaye umyeni wam, esithi hayi ke wavusa ngomoya wakhe umzali yenza kuye buthathaka bullying ngexesha esikolweni, andiyazi into omawuyenze."Kwi phezulu educating non-custodial abazali kwi parental uxanduva, abaqondisi-mthetho kwi-arhente wathi enjalo abazali kanjalo kufuneka ingcebiso kwi njani ukuchitha ixesha kunye nabantwana babo emva kokuba wokuqhawula umtshato."Siyi-ngoku uzama ukubonelela intlanganiso iiseshoni kwaye phambi ingcebiso kuba non-custodial abazali anqwenela ukuchitha ixesha kunye nabantwana babo,"watsho Bae Ngoko-young, a lawyer kwi-arhente."Yintoni bamele ungaze wenze ukuba uthethe kakubi yabo yangaphambili mlingane ukuba abantwana babo, njengoko young abantwana babe ukulifumana painful ukuba digest enjalo blame, ingakumbi emva kokudlula usapho okunokukhethwa kuko."Omnye wakhe abaxhasi' ex-husband ngomhla wokuqala wala imali yakhe idlulelwe lixesha inkxaso, claiming lowo ufumana i-credit delinquent kwaye kokuba akukho mvuzo. Malunga ngeveki emva, lowo ngesiquphe kwaziswa ukuba yena wished ukuba ukukhulisa abantwana bakhe ababini ngokwakhe endaweni nokunika inkxaso-mali."Xa ndicela kuye njani nguye oza kwenza ukuba xa lowo ufumana i-credit delinquent, wanika kuthi absurd iimpendulo ezifana 'akunyanzelekanga ukuba unayo nayiphi na imali kodwa mna? ingaba umniki amakhadi sebenzisa, '"watsho.
Kwi end, umxhasi bavumelana thumela omnye wakhe u-abantwana bahlale kunye nobawo ngoko unako ukukhulisa umntwana kwi abakhe.
I-lawyer wathi eyona ndlela tackle izizwe' umntwana inkxaso mba ukuba angenise umthetho oyilwayo ukuze criminalizes abazali' ukungaphumeleli ukunika isemthethweni umntwana inkxaso.
